We fell in love with France last year and we did the thing we always said we would not do, we came back again this year. We even visited one of the same sites as last year. I have always felt it is a big world and we need to see as much of it as possible but France has made me change this way of thinking and I would happily go back again next year.
I am by far no expert but I wanted to try and share some tips on travelling to France and tips whilst you are there. You can always have a look at a fabulous post from life as Mrs D with lots of advise on Travelling with little ones too.
Travelling on a ferry with children
I could write pages on this but I will try and keep it to the minium. Firstly if you can afford it then consider booking a cabin. It will give you somewhere to rest and put your feet up in private. I am sure they make the seats uncomfortable to make you book a cabin but really having a place to rest especially if you have a long journey is invaluable.
Have bags ready, once you leave the car you can not go back and you have to leave the car pretty quickly. Make sure you have snacks and drinks as although the food is generally good it’s not cheap. If you don’t have a cabin consider the cinema. It kills a couple of hours and you can always have a nap!
Get out on deck, even if it’s wet, it will kill time on a long crossing. Especially at the beginning and end when you have more to see and talk about.
It will not hurt to throw a few travel sickness tablets in. If children have not travelled on a boat before you will not know how they can cope with the waves so have some ready just in case.
They do have a very small soft play space. I wish my toddler had found this a bit later as once found it was a challenge getting her to go anywhere else!
Driving in France
So you may have a caravan to tow or you may be off with just the car but either way you will probably have a few miles to travel. The longest we travelled for was roughly 5 hours and that’s about the most I feel we can manage at the moment with Matilda (2 years old). If we just had Dylan (8 years old) then I think we could push it out to 6 or even maybe 7 hours driving with breaks. Again make sure you are prepared. Have snacks and drinks ready to grab. iPads charged and set up so you are able to get a signal to watch something. Have some magazines and books for them. Pens and paper. Plenty of music for everyone to sing along to. At times it is hard and you may feel like jumping out at the next red traffic light but stick with it and it’s worth it when you get to the destination.
If you are driving be sure to keep your insurance documents and registration certificate in the car at all times – it’s a legal requirement. You are also expected to have hi-viz vests and a warning triangle in the boot. You need to carry a breathalyzer kit too. Children need car seats or booster seats if they are under the required heights and children under 10 years old are not allowed to ride in the front seat of the car.
Petrol stations are further apart than we’re used to in Britain so don’t get too low on fuel, the next chance to fill up could be 150km away! And don’t forget to carry plenty of change for the tolls on the Autoroute, credit cards don’t always work and you can cause an embarrassing jam if you are stuck in the gate!
Choosing your destination
A lot of this will come down to how much you want to travel. Last year we wanted to do Disney and Paris so we used that as an initial point and worked out the holiday around it. We have found the further South you go the better weather you get, so if you want sun head South but the downside to this is generally more driving time. Take plenty of time to work out a route, look at the attractions you want to visit, do you want beach or towns? are you bothered about the weather?, whilst considering all these things you should start to get a good idea of the best route to suit you.
We have always booked the Les Castels sites, we know they are pretty much guaranteed to be 5 star for all facilities but you would struggle to find a bad site in France.
Eating out or in
The supermarkets are some of the best I’ve ever been too. It’s not often I get excited about shopping but I do love a French supermarket. The fruit and vegetables, the cakes, the hams are all of the best quality. You really don’t need to bring any food with you just get it there. Eating out is always a pleasure. My two love mussels and for some reason when in France eat better and are more adventurous with the food than they ever are at home.
Lunch really is an important part of the culture in France and the main meal of the day. A lot of businesses close daily between midday and 2pm to allow everyone time to sit and enjoy a midday meal, a three course meal with a two or three options per course costs 10-12€ per head and with children in tow you may find it easier to eat out at lunchtime than in the evening (French restaurants do not start serving the evening meal until around 7.30pm at the earliest).
Most restaurants offer smaller portions of main menu dishes for children and there is generally failsafe spaghetti bolognaise, plain grilled chicken or pizza to be found for the fusspots. Service is usually prompt at lunch-time as people need to get back to work so there shouldn’t be too much waiting around.
In France it is traditional for children to have a sweet snack at around 4pm so you could treat your children to a crepe, pastry or ice-cream in a café if a full restaurant meal experience is unlikely to be relaxing for you but we always found the restaurants to be relaxed and not bothered even when the children started to get tired or restless.
We have fallen in love with France and will be back again very soon. It is a great place to go on holiday with children of all ages, has amazing food, and wonderful scenery and culture – all just a quick hop over the Channel.There may be stressful moments, but with kids there are stressful moments just staying at home! Embrace the opportunities your holiday offers to create family memories that will last a lifetime.
If I can offer any advise on travel or destinations in France then please just leave a comment and I will try to help.
MrsS says
This is such a useful article.
Having the campervan we have often talked about France , but decided this year we wouldn’t try as our little boy is ten months and I wasn’t sure on the journey times . Great tips though and have pinned for later !
admin says
Wonderful, glad it’s of some help. You have the advantage with the campervan that you can do more miles quicker than we can with the caravan, so you could fit alot more in if you wanted. Do it next year, you will love it 🙂
MrsS says
I couldn’t pin so have saved for later reference !
Daisy - Dais Like These says
We travel in France every year, it is such a big country with so many amazing places to visit that there is no shame at all in going back again and again! Great tips about what to have in your car and the fact that everything closes for a while in the afternoon! We ordered a free ‘bip and go’ thing to put in the car which gets you through tolls in the express bit (you register your card and it charges all your tolls at the end of the month).
admin says
I have not heard of those before, running off to have a read about them. Would definitely help keep the costs down whilst on holiday. We are sure to go again next year 🙂
Helena says
It’s interesting to read of your experience and you are right that the food is fantastic there. #familytraveltips
admin says
Many thanks 🙂 glad you enjoyed it x
Plutonium Sox says
Oh this brings back memories! I do love France, I lived there for a year whilst I was at university. Beautiful place. I didn’t know all those legal requirements about driving there though, great tips thank you. I will be looking at this again whenever we get around to getting a camper van and heading off into Europe!
Thanks for linking up to #familytraveltips
Nat.x
admin says
Oh I’m super jealous, I would love to live there. You really must go back with the children. The legal requirements are quite new,we just throw them in the back of car and keep them in a box all the time now.
Emma Hip2trek says
Lovely post. I went to France every summer holiday when I was a child and loved it. We’ve not had chance to take our kids yet but it’s something I really want to do. I love french supermarkets! #AdventureCalling
lucy mackcracken says
this is a really helpful post. we are just starting to plan a driving holiday for next summer with our 5 year old and are thinking about how far south we can manage to get. thanks for the great tips #adventurecalling
Carrie - Flying With A Baby says
I found this really useful. Good reminders about the legalities of driving in France – I would not have known about the breathalyser kit. Thanks for linking up to #familytraveltips
David - Potty Adventures says
Great advice. We haven’t travelled on a ferry with our two yet but I do take up to 80 teens across for the annual school ski trip every February so I know how much this advice rings true. Also, the 4pm crepes are definitely for big kids too in my eyes . Thanks for joining us on #adventurecalling I hope you can again tomorrow.
Lauren The Helpful Hiker says
Great post and some useful tips. My parents live in France so we’re used to the ferry and a bit of driving, but it’s not easy with small children. I do love the French way of life, and after reading this can’t wait to get back there! Thanks for sharing with us #AdventureCalling